I have never been to a real AA meeting, but I see that they
have people stand up and say what they are. I guess that is the first step to
awareness of oneself and we grow from there. If that were so, then I would have
to say I am a low self-esteem person.
Now that that is out there, I have been doing a ton of study
on raising my self-esteem and I can feel the difference.
I used to be concern of what others thought of what I was
doing. I would allow rejection to affect my moving forward. I saw everyone
saying no to my trying to grow my business and would get down.
So I looked inside of me and with help of professional
programs, I have made great advancements on my self worth / value and the right
to have success in my life, to be happy and have a healthy positive emotions.
I have learned to distance the emotion of rejections and to
be in the moment of joy, happiness, peace and a vision of my future. To
celebrate the emotion of good and happiness. I have found that happiness is
always “now” not in the future or if something happens or with someone. We have
to always remember to choose to be happy, everyday, all day, the emotion of
happy is a choice.
I have found to focus on the good and have developed three
areas of great important for connecting the dots of the HOW to and not the
general view of a positive attitude.
A positive attitude is good but without Action steps that
are in line with your goals; the attitude is just a wish. The attitude is good,
but without the how, it is not very useful.
The three areas for my success is to have a burning desire
to be where I want to be, to believe I am worthy of this success with all my
limits and short comings, and to have a healthy expectancy that it will work.
My positive affirmations are directed to this end. My self-talk
is in line with my action steps and my action steps are in line with my goals.
An action step not leading you to a goal is miss direction
and will lead us away, not towards are goal.
There is so much more to share, but for now, think on our
self talk to build our desire, your belief you can do it and the expectancy
that when you do, you are wanted and accepted. The stronger you have of these 3
things the faster to your dreams and goals.
Just like a 3-legged stool, all three are needed to support
your success, Desire, Belief, Expectancy, builds these and they will build your
business.
2013 is a year where we focus on our goals and not the
reactions of others that do not qualify to make a difference in our lives.
Celebrate new business partners, clients, and friends.
Have relationships with all but limit your partnership to a
standard. It’s like climbing a mountain. You have many who want to climb but
you would only want the ones who really will climb on your team. Select your
climbing team and look to your mountain head on, knowing that together this
mountain will be climbed.
Pay the price of digging for the gold in your business and
dis guard the many tons of useless dirt. The hard work will pay off.
2013 is our year for business and my team is coming
together, getting ready, how about you and yours!!!!
Your friend Bob
